Help New Zealand’s historic institutional abuse survivors to seek truth and justice. Help New Zealand’s historic institutional abuse survivors to protect future generations of children who are entrusted to State care.

The “MSSAT HOME” page gives a little background to the formation of the Trust.

We are delighted to post a Research paper received from Donald Pettitt Manager of the Canterbury Mens  Centre and written by Research Scholar Silas Thielmann while he was with the CMC.  We welcome your feedback on his findings.  See the “RESEARCH PAGE” link.

MSSAT National Manager Ken Clearwater currently at an International Male Survivor Conference in the UK was a “star” attraction at the NZ Police Tane Toa camp at Hanmer Springs in October 2011, apparently his mountain bike exploits had to be seen to be believed with only his pride dented.  But seriously, excellent feedback received from the NZ Police,  Ken engaged with and related well with the youngsters who were inspired by such a fantastic role model.

VICTIMS NO LONGER RESIDENTIAL RETREAT WITH MIKE LEW M. ED. AT BLUE SKIES KAIAPOI NORTH CANTERBURY.

Our residential workshop commences on Friday 29 July 2011 with 18 participants mainly local survivors but a special welcome is extended to the men from Dunedin and Wellington.

We are most grateful for the financial support we received from THE LION FOUNDATION towards this retreat.

LATEST ON MSSAT IN CHRISTCHURCH AND THANKS TO RECENT SPONSORS.

We are still without an official office, Manager Ken and CSW Paul are visiting clients in their homes or over coffee,  John is carrying out the admin requirements from his home and hosting weekly staff meetings.  The weekly support group is meeting at the rooms of a Trustee’s workplace, and the Trust Board meets there monthly as well.

Ken is the Chair of the Christchurch Community House (our old home)  Tenants Board and along with House Manager Mike and his assistant Eileen investigating alternative short to medium term premises as the fate of CCH doesnot look great.  The five story building in the heart of the “Red Zone” CBD has dropped at one corner and is likely to be demolished along with many other buildings.  Mike & Eileen now have a short term office and negotiations are underway for a larger “house” for tenants use.

MSSAT appreciates the support we have already received in the current financial year (commenced 1 April 2011) from the  MINISTRY OF SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT, LION FOUNDATION as mentioned above, PUB CHARITY and UNITED WAY NZ, the latter made donations to various Canterbury Trusts at a function this week where many of us met up with old friends from CCH for the first time since the February quake.

To Whom It May Concern,

My son, (name withheld) was sent to prison last June for 12 months for possession and selling of cannabis. He had just turned 18 and was certainly not prison materiel (in my opinion) He spent 6 months at Paparoa youth prison in Christchurch.It was a devastating time for us all. He had a rough few years getting very heavily involved in drugs, alcohol and taking massive risks, breaking bones, cutting himself and attempting suicide. Unbeknown to me he was being sexually abused by my partner whom he had loved very deeply and trusted completely. I had no idea why his behaviour had taken such a turn as he was head boy at his school, played (sport withheld) for the New Zealand team for 5 years and received the sports award at the end of the year. He was doing really well in his life and then took a big turn for the worst which resulted in him going to prison.

I went on anti depressants in order to cope with the behaviour and he eventually told me what was going on. I had no idea where to turn or to where to look for help as I had never come across this before or had never met anyone who had been sexually abused. A friend who is involved with victim support told me about Ken Clearwater and the Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse team in Christchurch. I flew up to meet with them and was introduced to Paul. I told him our story and he agreed to go and visit my son in prison. This was the first ray of hope I had since the discovery of the abuse. He was very kind and compassionate towards me and gave me lots of support.

Paul went and met with my son over a period of months and the visits had a huge impact upon him. He finally felt safe and appreciated having someone he could talk to. He really looked forward to the visits, especially appreciating being treated like a person and with respect. On my last visit Paul sat in with us both and helped put some systems in place for when he came home. This was very helpful, as I did not know what to expect or how I should handle him. Paul touched base with me frequently, to see how I was getting on and this meant the world to me as he could relate and help me with what I was going through.

Since his release he has got a building apprenticeship and is doing really well. He has had a few bumps as was to be expected but he now has ambition and is working towards a goal. He is off drugs, drinks only once a week and is determined to make something of his life. The improvements in him are really encouraging and I finally feel my sweet, loving, kind boy is back!

I totally support this organization and would not have got through this terrible situation had it not been for them. They saved us both and we now have a happy, healthy family once again (without the offender of course). I cannot speak highly enough of Ken and Paul and the work they are doing. There work is a very necessary part of rehabilitation for boys and the support and advice is invaluable. For them to visit boys in prison makes a huge impact as they have no one on the inside who totally understands what they have been through. I cannot rate this organization highly enough. We desperately need them in our society.

Kind Regards
(Mother’s name withheld)

Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Trust (MSSAT) started in 1991 in Christchurch when a client asked his Counsellor how he could go about meeting other men who had experienced similar childhood trauma. Together they formed a support group and in 1997 members of that group registered MSSAT as a Charitable Trust.

In recent years MSSAT has been instrumental in the establishment of Better Blokes (MSSAT Auckland) and MSSAT Waikato who both operate as independent Trusts but with the same principles and objectives of MSSAT. Support groups for male survivors, their parents and partners are held in Nelson and Wellington.

All MSSAT organisations offer one to one, peer and group support for survivors and their significant others. Group support and the validation from other men is very empowering for recovering survivors. As abuse usually takes place in isolation healing works well with others.

Contact details for MSSAT can be found on the “About MSSAT” and ” Contact” pages.

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If you are a first-time mother or just thinking about buying a baby gift, then you need to look at buying baby toys online. You want to make sure the toy you buy is age-appropriate and safe for your baby. There are several main types of baby toys, you can choose from. Let’s take a look at the key features of each. By doing so, you will have a better idea of what type of toy you should get for your baby.

The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) has created a crib safety act that outlines all the rules about toys that you should be using in your child’s crib. The crib safety act defines the maximum height that a baby can reach, the number of hours a baby can be left unattended in the crib, and the amount of weight that a baby can be placed on the floor, on a swing, or in a sit-up chair. The act also outlines all of the toys that are allowed in a baby’s play area and any that are not. In addition to the laws regarding the toys, the CPSC outlines rules about how manufacturers can advertise their products. By abiding by the regulations outlined in the crib safety act, you can ensure that toys are safe for your baby.

How does the safety of a toy affect its overall rating? The safety rating system of a toy is generally based on its weight, size, and durability. In order for a toy to be considered relatively safe, it must meet all three of these requirements. However, the way a toy is built affects all three requirements. Therefore, the more carefully a toy is constructed, the more likely it will meet all the required safety standards.

For example, a toy may be deemed safe if it meets the standard height requirement, weighs less than 5.5 ounces, and has a non-toxic body or head insert. On the other hand, you may want to avoid buying certain baby toys because they are too lightweight or too strong for your baby. For example, you may want to avoid buying a toy truck that is more than five inches long, because it can pose a choking hazard. Similarly, you may want to avoid a stuffed animal that is too large for your baby because it may put him or her at risk for head injury.

On the other hand, you may want to choose the Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Rock-A Stack Key Features as your baby’s favorite Fisher-Price toy. These include interactive elements such as a flashlight and a moving red dot. Other entertaining interactive features include a changing pad and an activity book. If you are looking for a unique baby toy that will keep your baby engaged, Fisher-Price Brilliant Basics Rock-A Stack Key Features is a great choice.

If you choose to buy a Fisher-Price toy that features interactive educational elements, there are a few things you should look for when you are choosing the best interactive Fisher-Price key features for your baby. First of all, you should make sure that these Fisher-Price interactive learning systems use recommended age levels. These key features include everything from building blocks to musical instruments to coloring books to puzzles. You should also ensure that these interactive learning systems provide you with a variety of ways for your little one to interact with other children in a safe and fun way.

For example, the Baby Rattleoid RC Vehicle offers two options: the RemotePlus or the Super Rico Deluxe. The RemotePlus is a simple and fun toy that allows your baby to play with multiple interactive sounds and unique movements while using a remote control. The Super Rico Deluxe is a larger and more intense toy that allows your little one to play with three interactive sound effects and multiple textures. In addition to the fun sound effects and textures, this toy also has a motor that can move the toy in any direction, including up and down. The best key features of this toy are its bright colors, exciting noises, and its ability to change its shape.

Other great toys include Baby Q-Snapshot Pro, which allows your baby to make music and sound effects from her mouth! Baby Q-Snapshot Pro comes with two mixtures of music and sound effects, and is great for babies who love to talk. Also, you should look for those AA batteries. If you have an electrician in your household, you should be able to find a battery with the same code on both the Baby Q-Snapshot Pro and the Baby Rattleoid. If you choose to combine both of these toys, however, it is recommended that you buy the rechargeable battery.

 

For any home or business that has a problem with black mold, it is important to have access to a quality mold cleaner. Black mold is a toxic fungus that can grow anywhere there is dampness, such as inside a home or in a professional building. It is often associated with humidifier machines, however, it can also be found in shower curtains, on moist newspaper and even on stored food. If you or anyone else in the house develops an illness due to this mold, it could worsen the situation and even make it necessary for the family to be relocated.

Celina Mold Cleaner penetrates mold and mildew and kills fungus and mold spores, effectively removing them from your closed tent. The active ingredient found in this effective product is Calcium Hypochlorite, which is 200 times more effective than bleach when removing mold-based stains. To use, spray the affected area liberally with the cleaner, leaving it to absorb the first few minutes of treatment. Allow the solution to sit on the surface for five to 10 minutes, then rinse thoroughly with clean water. There are no health issues associated with using this product to remove mold. However, if it is used without the proper precautions, it could still cause the discoloration of other fabrics or harm the skin.

In addition to disinfecting surfaces and clothing, cleaners are also available that kill the spores already present in the air and on the fabrics. These products are formulated with a strong formula that is designed to penetrate the fibers of most fabrics. Because they are made with a strong formula, they are not recommended for cleaning walls, furniture or other surfaces. Instead, they are designed for use on items that are outside and have no structural integrity, such as tents.

If you want to make sure that you get rid of mold without damaging any of your interior surfaces, you should consider the use of an all-natural mold removal product. These products work by killing mold spores and are safe for you and your family. They also come in a handy mold remediation package. An all-natural mold cleanup cleaner contains bleach, which kills mold spores and prevents them from reproducing.

A variety of mold remediation products are available to deal with your mold issue, including strong formula cleaners and mildew cleaner. Based on personal and professional mold experience, neither of these products should be considered the final verdict on removing mold. However, you may feel compelled to try mildew cleaners if the interior surfaces on your home are covered in a thick layer of black mold, especially on the walls.

A good solution for removing mildew and bacteria is a commercial solution. The only problem with these products is that they contain harsh chemicals that can cause serious damage to your lungs and other body parts. For example, vinegar is a mildew cleaner but it is a powerful poison. Vinegar is also a poison, which means that it will kill you even before you remove the mold stains from your walls.

You should know that a home remedy like a commercial mildew cleaner or a homemade vinegar-water solution is a much better solution to your problem than using a commercial mildew cleaner or vinegar-water solution. In this case, you would use vinegar mixed with water, instead of just vinegar. This home remedy is a great option as long as you have clean walls and floors. This solution is safe for you and your family. You can use it even when there is no mold or mildew present, since vinegar will remove both bad smells and bad tastes from your house.

Mold can grow on almost any type of surface. It can grow on bathtubs, sinks, flooring, ceilings, tile, counter tops, and even clothing. Some types of mold are toxic and need special cleaning techniques. You should be sure to seek help from professional mold cleaners if you have a severe infestation of mold in your house or building. Professional mold cleaners are trained to remove mold safely and completely.

 

Why North shore carpets? You could find many local North shore carpet cleaning companies however what makes right and special for your own carpet cleaning task is quality checks, safety measures and experience.

Being a licensed company in carpet steam cleaning service, you value your property and this is why team ensure every object in your home is cared for with the utmost care. It is not about just having a clean carpet but you also want to maintain a good look. Having a clean and shiny carpet is an assurance of keeping the beauty of your home up.

Being one of the leading companies in North shore cleaning has its own set of duties and obligations. Carpet cleaning North shore companies adhere to strict regulations and guidelines by performing their task properly and safely.

Carpet cleaning North shore companies follow strict rules and regulations and follow all standards set by Health Canada and other government agencies. They are required by law to carry out thorough and careful inspection of carpets and to carry out the necessary actions.

Carpet cleaning North shore companies use only the best equipment and products that are FDA approved and certified safe for use. Carpet cleaning North shore companies also follow strict guidelines by the Canadian Occupational Health and Safety Association (OHSA). They also follow all local government requirements such as building and construction codes, health and safety rules and regulations, and local zoning restrictions. They also carry out regular spot checks to prevent carpet deterioration caused by over-carpeting.

Carpets need proper cleaning if you want them to retain their elegance and shine. Regular vacuuming and steam cleaning services not only give your carpets a fresh look, it is also an effective way to keep carpets safe and clean and free from dirt and bacteria.

Cleaning is an art and requires a professional and experienced service. Professional companies use state of the art tools and techniques to thoroughly clean carpets.

Companies also provide a guarantee on their work, so you get the benefit of knowing that your carpets will be taken care of and will last longer and even look brand new for years to come. This is something you should take advantage of.

Cleaning is not only important to protect carpets and make them look beautiful but it also prevents dust mites, mold, and mildew from forming. The health of your family is also at risk when people with respiratory illnesses such as asthma or allergies can breathe in harmful particles. These particles are inhaled when carpeted and it makes them susceptible to getting infected.

Most cleaning companies follow certain procedures for their work, and the quality of their service is one thing that will separate them from the rest. Professional cleaning companies hire professionals who are trained in this field to ensure their work is of the highest quality.

Companies that provide a guarantee are most likely to provide good services and to their customers. In fact, many people choose these companies over the competition because of their guarantee. These companies are more likely to deliver on what they promise.

Professional carpet cleaning North shore companies are highly skilled in this field of business and have the tools and equipment to clean all types of carpets. They also have technicians who are well versed with the latest technology and equipment. They use the latest equipment and products to make sure that the work is done professionally and safely. They also have the latest cleaning equipment that is safe and efficient.

You will always get the service that you expect when you choose to go through a company that does it right. You can rest assured that your carpet will always look great and look fresh.

 

There are many sex toys out there, but most people still prefer to go down on one another. This is why the “jelqing method” can be such a huge success. Let’s take a look at how to do it and what it takes to get the results you want.

The concept of selling involves pumping your penis up and down the vaginal muscles in order to stimulate the g-spot. It doesn’t actually involve any “sex”, but using your penis like a lubricant to get your way to the g-spot is very effective.

To reach your G-spot, you should first try to stimulate the front wall of your vagina. This may seem like a hard step, but it actually isn’t that hard. You should focus on getting your clitoris stimulated as well as your G-spot to increase the chances of finding the G-spot with your penis.

When you’re doing this, you’ll notice that your man will start breathing a little harder than usual. He may also feel a little bit sore and tight in the region, so don’t worry too much about this.

The reason why you need to pump your penis up and down is that the G-spot only reacts to steady pressure. For this reason, you should never go too fast when trying to stimulate the G-spot. If you speed up too quickly, your penis may end up making the sensation worse.

Also, keep in mind that the G-spot only responds to certain types of g-spot stimulation. If you try to do it by stimulating just the base of your penis, it will probably not work. Instead, you should try to stimulate the entire shaft and g-spot with your hand.

With all of that said, it’s important that you take your time with your search for the right g-spot. If you don’t find it in one night, don’t worry, it won’t take you a long time to find it again. Just make sure that you’re consistent with your search and don’t give up until you find it.

By the end of the day, I’m sure you’ll be feeling like you spent a lot of money on sex toys but didn’t receive much in return. If you follow this advice, you’ll have the same experience after a few weeks or months.

If you’re not satisfied with your first sex toy, try another. Don’t make a habit out of having the same sex toy every time. Take some time to try something new. It might be that the first one that you buy doesn’t give you the results that you were hoping for.

Try using other toys in conjunction with your g-spot, as well. For example, if your clitoris is too sensitive, you might want to use a small dildo instead.

It’s also worth trying to see how your partner reacts to the g-spot and different toys. If she has a problem with it, you might want to try another toy or try something else altogether. Most women will tell you that they prefer a smaller size when it comes to g-spot.

It’s also important that you get rid of sex toys that are too small for you. When it comes to the g-spot, it’s always best to use the larger size. If you use a dildo and she can’t stand the idea of you penetrating her, then it may not work as well as you’d like.

If you’re using a vibrator and you still can’t reach the g-spot, don’t worry. There are some exercises that can help.

One of the most effective is a pelvic floor exercise. You don’t have to do any expensive machines, just simply do some deep breathing exercises to relax the pelvic floor.

After you’ve done some of these exercises, your sex toys should be able to reach the g-spot without your assistance. Even if you’ve had a lot of sex before, this technique can still help you.

Also make sure that you keep your sexual position. If you’re using a g-spot stimulation device, try switching it out for a penis-vagina sex toy, or even a butt plug!

 

To have a better understanding of what pest control is about, here’s a brief overview of what a pest is. Essentially, pests are any destructive and unwanted animals or insects that attack livestock, plants or food.

Pests can come in a variety of sizes and types. Some are small enough to pass through a light, while others are large enough to chew through a chain link fence or even climb a ladder. While smaller pests cannot often be seen, they may be found in places such as attics, basements, under the eaves or behind the drywall. These pests include moths, ants, white-flies, leafhoppers, waxwings and mosquitoes. When the need arises, a professional pest control specialist can come out and exterminate the unwanted critters.

While there are numerous methods of eliminating pests, some are better suited for certain parts of the country than others. In this article, we’ll take a closer look at several methods used by Auckland pest control specialists.

The most popular and effective pest control method involves using pesticides and chemicals to kill pests. Many commercial insecticides come in both sprays and liquid forms. There are also some organic pesticides available. If you’re looking for a more natural method of dealing with pests, you can apply a natural solution, such as liquid Castor oil, to various cracks and crevices in your home.

Another popular method of pest control in Auckland is by using a natural method of killing pests, such as the use of natural products like garlic. Garlic is great for killing pesky pests because it’s an inexpensive and natural product. If you want to use garlic, ensure that you leave the cloves on the plant before you put it in the compost bin.

Pest control Auckland is also achieved by using traps that trap the pests and then destroying them. These traps are commonly made of plastic. However, many pest control experts advise against using these traps because they are very harmful to animals and plants. Instead, professionals recommend using mechanical pest traps that use a vacuum to suck up pests. the pests so that they can no longer be able to reproduce.

A more environmentally friendly method of controlling pests in Auckland would be to create an air-tight seal around your property by sealing vents and cracks around your property with caulk and sealing off any leaks. Also, ensuring that your heating and cooling systems are set at a low temperature will help.

When using any pest control service, ensure that you ask for a guarantee and check with your local authority to see if they have the necessary permission for the pest control you want done in your area. It’s best to contact Auckland pest control professionals as soon as possible so that you can get your problem taken care of right away.

If your pest infestation is a small one, you can attempt to treat it yourself. This could prove to be quite effective if you know what you’re doing. However, if you have a larger infestation, or are unfamiliar with pest control in Auckland, you may wish to contact professional pest control services. They will have all the equipment required to effectively deal with any pest problems in your home.

Always speak to your pest control company or Auckland pest specialist about the type of treatment you want to use. Before you start treating your home or business, find out the right amount of treatment for your situation. You can also ask your Auckland pest control company about any chemicals they may use. If you’re unsure about a specific method, make sure you do enough research to ensure you know the exact procedure before beginning.

If you do use a professional pest control company, make sure you hire someone who has been recommended by someone you trust. Find out their credentials and ensure they are registered with the New Zealand pest control authority. If they have not been trained as a pest control expert in Auckland, find out why and how they have acquired this certification. Check with the NZ pest control authority to see if they are licensed and follow their procedures. Ask to see some samples of work completed by your pest control company to make sure that they’re up to date and safe for your use.

Finally, before hiring Auckland pest control companies, make sure you thoroughly research any company you’re considering. You can read reviews online to get an idea of the experience of other clients that have hired the pest control company.

 

From walking to skating to snowboarding, NZ sneakers have something for everyone. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced skater, there are a variety of styles and types of skate shoes that can get you to the top of your game. Whether you’re looking for something for your first pair of shoes, or you’re looking for a new pair, there are a number of different options available.

If you’re thinking about buying skate shoes, there are a number of different ways to go about it. If you’ve never owned a pair before, you may not be sure what size to order. If you’ve been skating for a while and need a new set, you’ll likely be able to find what you need online. However, if you want to try on shoes online, you may find that the size is off by one or two sizes. The retailer will help you find the right size and shoe.

There are a number of options available to you when you purchase a pair of NZ skates online. You’ll find that there’s a variety of different styles and colours to choose from. These shoes are made with all of the latest technology so you can trust them to perform well and to last. Plus, they’re usually more affordable than traditional skate shoes. You can choose between either leather or canvas for the upper of the shoe, so you can choose which will be most comfortable for you.

In addition to the styles, you can also select from a variety of colours. Many of the boots and boot sets are available in black, brown, navy blue, or other colours. There are also many styles available in the form of boots and shoes to wear when snowboarding. The styles include slip-on, platform shoes, booties, and full-grain leather.

When you buy a pair of NZ sneakers, you’re also going to get free shipping with some purchases. If you’re looking for a pair of shoes that will last a long time, you should consider this feature.

Another thing that makes NZ shoes so popular is their reputation for producing quality and durable footwear. This means that they’ll last through any type of activity that you participate in. Whether you’re skating snowboarding, or snowshoeing, the footwear is designed to keep you safe and comfortable while you’re doing it. Even after using them once, you’ll be able to use them again.

Another thing that makes NZ sneakers so popular is the price that they charge. They’re usually less expensive than other footwear that you’ll see in the stores. Because of this, there’s no reason to pay full retail when you can simply get the same or even more for less at a good online retailer.

If you’re interested in buying a pair of NZ skates, you should look into several different places to make sure that you can get a great deal on a pair. There’s a wide variety of retailers that offer great prices. Even if you buy a couple of pairs at once, you’ll still save money because you can buy in bulk and get them shipped for next to nothing.

Another thing to look at is the shipping costs. Many websites will charge you extra shipping fees for buying a large number of items. When you look around at different sites for this shipping charge, you might find that you can get better deals by shopping around.

One more thing that might interest you when you’re looking at buying a pair of NZ sneakers is their return policy. You might find that they give you a free gift if you receive your sneakers damaged, or if your style doesn’t work out for you. Even if you don’t buy them new, you might want to look at the stores that sell used or clearance sneakers. because these stores may have brands that you never heard of.

One final thing to consider when buying NZ sneakers is the fact that there’s a good warranty that is usually offered with most of their footwear. It’s important to check this before you buy a pair so you know what to expect if anything goes wrong.

So, if you’re looking for a pair of NZ sneakers, you’ve definitely come to the right place. In this article, we’ve discussed the top three things to consider when buying one. You can choose from a variety of styles and colours, and you can save money on shipping and the cost of the shoes.

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